Ty came home with his first homework assignment on Wednesday. In case you can't read the note from his teacher, it says: He tells the cafeteria his name is TyTy. We are trying to get him used to Rylan.
Let's tell the whole story now. When we were searching for a name for our 2nd child I came across a kid that had submitted artwork to "The Friend" magazine with the name Rylan. I kind of liked Ryan as a name but it was too common for me. When I saw Rylan I fell in love with the name. Preston picked the middle name of Ty. I asked if he wanted Tyson or Tyler and he said nope, just Ty. I was totally ok with that. Not even a week after he was born Preston started calling him Ty because he said Aydon & Rylan sounded too much alike (umm...okaaaay). Love you babe! :) I tried to still call him Rylan but everyone started calling him Ty so I did too. When he was younger I would call him Rylan and he would say, "I'm not Rylan...I'm TyTy!" So that's what he's been. Even at preschool last year he wrote his name as TyTy. Not so secretly, I had always hoped that when he started school he would go by Rylan. When I registered him I asked him what he wanted to be called and he said he didn't care. It feels weird to call him Rylan so I registered him with "Ty" in quotations after talking with the secretary on how to make sure he was called Ty. When we went to meet his teacher the Friday before school started she had him as Rylan and I told her he goes by Ty. She said ok but was super busy so obviously the message didn't quite register.
So now I'm confused. I asked Ty again what he wants to go by and again he said he didn't care. I thought that since he didn't care it was probably good for him to learn & practice Rylan. He also is playing football and they put the names of the boys on the back of the their helmets and they put "Rylan Ty". I asked Preston why they put both and he didn't know either? The thing is I can't call him Rylan at home...it's such a habit to call him Ty that I have to constantly correct myself. As much as I've always wanted him to go by Rylan he is TyTy. Everyone knows him as Ty & it's such a hard adjustment. I have decided that until he says something to me about what he wants to go by that I will just leave it...let it be his decision what he wants to be called. Now concentrate...Rylan, Rylan, Rylan. Please no RyRy though. :)

